I GUESS WE HAVE ALL BEEN TO THAT PLACE MANY, MANY TIMES. You have situation you don’t have a clue as to how to help, solve or even talk to God about it. I can’t say I have any definitive answers, even enough of an answer to satisfy myself. I do know this…the solution lies with us, not HIM. For instance, there is a situation in our family, (bet you have at least one too,lol) that there appears to be no answer to, on a human level. To just blithely say, “oh, just give it to God” is silly, our minds won’t let us. One morning as I was praying for my family with my Bible open on my lap, I saw this verse, “Reflect on what I am saying, for I the Lord will give you insight into all these things.” 2 Timothy 2:7. God can’t lie…that is a statement with no conditions except to reflect…think…meditate…consider…ponder. And, then there is the BIG part, WAIT. God will bring to your mind the insight you need. In my experience, that could be an hour, day, month, or years, since He isn’t only working on you and your view of the problem but you don’t know how many other people are involved in some way,that He is dealing with. We don’t think of that. And, of course that’s why God is so interested in our learning to fully trust him! I found years ago that the Lord taught me many basic character qualities as He walked me through lessons that could only be learned in times of stress and difficulty. It sounds trite but patience learned (or learning) leads endurance and longsuffering. Worry was a big flaw in my character. Learning to trust when I was so prone to worry and fretting was a big issue that took Him years to break me of, but He did, I’ve become convinced most professing believers do not allow the Spirit of God to make the changes in us that are imperative if we are to show a fallen world Christ. And that is a great pity!
Another aspect of what I call the “how to pray syndrome.” The Scripture tells us to pray for the peace of Jerusalem. Here we are in the last days, Israel stands almost completely alone, America is about to turn it’s back on her, the Arabs/Palestinians/Muslims refuse to view history as it is recorded in truth but have their own version which is almost entirely erroneous. And of course no one wants to believe the Biblical version except a remnant of us…Israel and the Israeli’s are His! And…He goes into great detail about what He will do to those who come against His people as almost all are doing now. I know enough about prophecy to look at our world and its leadership and put it together…and it ain’t good! Back to praying for Jerusalem, how do I/we pray for this situation when we know the horrors that are about to befall the world, and especially Israel and the Middle East? The only solution I have come up with is to pray back to God a part of the prayer the Lord taught His disciples…”Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven.”
I’m sure you have situations in your life and family that you wonder how to pray. I think the best “rule of thumb” is a word from the verse in Psalms I quoted above…reflect…God speaks to us in a small voice, usually but not always from His Word and gently will lead us where to go or what to do. Wait…Trust..and pray.